choosing a Baby Name
Throughout your pregnancy you have probably been making a list of possible names
for your baby. Choosing a name for the newest addition to your family is probably
one of the most important and exciting decisions you will make.
Naming your baby can be a pretty big task. There are endless possibilities out there,
and it might take a while to find a name that both you and your partner are happy
with.
The name you choose could be influenced by many things. Maybe you feel it’s
important to follow family tradition and name your child after a parent or grandparent
or maybe you are looking for a name that is really unique. Names, whether
or not you consider their published meanings, will be sure to conjure up all sorts
of images and associations, which are sure to affect your choice as well.
To help you arrive at a name for your new bub, we’ve put together a list of
things to consider while you trawl through the many names you come across in books,
magazines, online and during your day to day life.
Nicknames
It’s almost inevitable that your child’s name will be shortened at some
point - if not by you then by someone else. A nickname can be quite different from
the original name - it may sound different, or conjure up different thoughts or
emotions. So when you’re looking at names, consider any nicknames that might
be created and decide whether you’re ok with these.
Pronounciation and Spelling
If you are considering a unique name, or a unique spelling for a name, make sure
you give some thought to how easy it is to pronounce and spell. A unique name can
be really special, but if it’s too complicated, it may also be frustrating
for your child to have to frequently spell it out or correct people.
Meaning
Some parents like to choose a name based on it's meaning. A positive meaning can
draw you closer to a name or it may remind you of a significant event or time in
your life. This can be a wonderful gift to give to your baby.
Length
If you have a long or hyphenated surname, you may like to consider a shorter first
name to avoid too much complexity. Alternatively if you have a short last name,
a longer first name may be a nice fit.
Initials
Check that the name’s initials don’t spell out an unfortunate sounding
word. For example, you may think the name Peta Isabel Gordon is perfect for a girl
– until you see that the initials spell out PIG.
Family or Cultural Traditions
Family names are wonderful but they may not be what you want to call your baby.
Traditions and expectations can create problems for some couples so consider the
compromise position of using traditional family names as middle names. Discuss your
ideas between yourselves and announce your agreed position to all once you are both
happy with your choices.
Match with Surname
Your baby’s surname is the name you have least control over, so be sure to
take it into account when choosing a name (or names). Choose a name that complements
the surname. Try to avoid rhyming first & surnames, and say the full name aloud
to see how the names sound together.
Celebrity Names
Many popular names, especially celebrity names can date quite quickly and may have
a lot of baggage attached to them depending upon the celebrity’s behaviour.
Always think about the longevity of your baby's name, as it will remain with your
child forever.
Combining Names
If you have more than one name you like and cannot decide between them why not consider
combining two together. This can result in some lovely, meaningful and unique names.
Names of Siblings
Similar to surnames, consider how the name of your new baby will fit in with the
names of your other children. If you are having twins or triplets, consider
the names separately, as well as how they go together.